It's sad but men giving women massage is nothing that our culture promotes or teaches. Female massage is almost a dirty word in America. I admit, in my younger years, I was pretty oblivious myself. I wanted to do something about that in my life, in my relationships, and started seeking information on what I could do to give my wife happy ending massage. I wanted to know, how do I 'really' physically connect with my partner. After years of research and lots of practice with male to female massage, several women told me that I should make a business out of the skills I developed in sensual touch. Femspahhh is that business. Imagine someone treating your body your face your hair your back your shoulders your legs your feet like you were a Goddess Or Queen.
That's how I want it to feel for you.
Relax get comfortable and let me bring more sensation than any man has ever brought to your body. My work is NOT about pushing your muscles around like a massage therapist. I see it more like all the different ways that a woman might be able to be caressed and revered. Touch can be or feel utility or it can feel like adoration. You are most likely deprived of the latter. Sensual Massage is about sending your senses reeling. It is about your body feeling excited and alive! Give yourself a treat today schedule now.
A Little story of my first Sensual Massage
Somehow you came to the notion that a sensual massage could be something Amazing! And now you have searched it and found my site, and let me guess, you are scared to death and a bit excited at the same time. If so, I can relate! Long before I ever considered providing sensual massage, or happy ending massage for women, I discovered there was a massage parlor next to my work that had a reputation for doing happy ending massage and more. So one day I mustered up the courage and marched over to check it out.
When I entered, I found myself in a tiny hall space with a locked inner door, a surveillance camera and a tiny little window. I was only about 20 years old and this creeped me out so I was out of there in seconds. It would be 2 more years before I discovered another massage parlor with “that” reputation. Fortunately this one was a bit friendlier on the front end, but now I have questions; What will happen when I get inside? Who does what? Do I have to ask for what I want? Is it illegal? Will I get in trouble if I say the wrong thing? Will I have any say in who does what I am looking for? Will I be able to choose a female massage therapist? It was actually all pretty intimidating.
Somehow I endured, and this middle aged lady, one of 3 female therapists, who spoke very little English took me into a stinky room and got started on a fairly traditional full body massage therapy. Was I in the wrong place? Should I say something? Ask something? IDK! So finally we were down to about the last 5 minutes, I am on my back now and she taps my leg. “yu wa here?” roughly pointing at my penis, “uh yeah, sure, please.” “fifty dalla” she says, “yu teep exra 50 dalla?” “OK, yes please.”
So she glugs on some lube and starts pulling and stroking and telling me in broken english that I have a big cock, and I’m wondering, Did I really just agree to pay $50 for this? Anyway, miraculously I somehow manage to get an erection to which she proceeds to do something I can only describe as “hammering.” After about 30 seconds it becomes almost unbearable, but at the same time I feel the hint of the possibility of being able to have an orgasm. So I let her pound away and sure enough, in spite of the feeling that I won’t want my penis touched for at least a month after this, I do in fact manage to ejaculate. She wipes up with a warm towel and seconds later I’m breathing fresh air again, minus a bit over $100 including the “tip,” wondering where I can get some first aid cream for abrasion.
Why am I telling you my story?
Because I understand some of the things that might be going on in your mind as you search for your sensual massage. What will the person look like? How old is he? Is he fat? Is he going to want to F**k me? Is he going to want to date me? Will he be calling me or texting me to “hook up.”? How will I know what is going to happen? Can I get what I want without having to reciprocate? How do I ask for what I want? Is it Okay to say “I prefer a male?” And probably 50 other questions that could easily derail your interest in obtaining your sensual massage or happy ending massage for girls, if left unanswered.
So I created this site, and a couple other sites that I use to provide information that can help you get some of your questions answered so you can have some security and predictability about the who, what and how of your quest. If you can be informed and prepared, maybe this can happen for you.
So here is a little about me. (See the video below, that is me) I am a strong healthy 58 year old contractor, 6’ tall, 190# with silver hair and a girlfriend, (who knows all about my female massage orgasm business and is fully supportive.) So I will not be hitting you up for dates, or other relationship queries. My girlfriend and or my work provides for all of my sexual needs so I will not be asking or attempting to obtain my gratification from you. The idea here is that you are obtaining your female happy ending gratification from me, so everything I do is to satisfy your interests.
I posted an explanation of what to expect at a sensual massage with me at one of my other websites that has content that is slightly more descriptive than at this site. But since you have landed on this page and read this far, I think you will find it even more helpful than this page. See that content. From there you can find links to sensual massage videos and massage theme ideas that may pique your interests and curiosity.
The video below is also very popular for getting a feel for who I am, and what I do.
Want to see what a Sensual Massage session might look like?
This video is an example of a session with Rocky. Recorded in June 2018.
This is a Censored version. Watch Uncensored version here if you are 18 years old or older.
Please note, This is only an example of one of at least 100 "themed" sensual or erotic massage possibilities. Your session could be tailored to be Much softer and slower, and or almost any degree of decreased or increased penetration, stimulation and intensity. Every session is customized to your specific boundaries, wishes, interests, fantasies, and desires.
Sensual Massage Video Spoiler
The video above is about an hour long, maybe more. In the event you don't have time to watch or you are not alone, here is the spoiler on the video. In EVERY session, we sit in the office area of my studio for a boundaries check in. Here I ask what you would like to happen in your session. This gives me YOUR general boundaries. I might ask questions. How close? How much pressure? Any place that you don't want touched? Anything you don't want to happen? (You can presume that I will remain fully clothed at all times.) Is there anything that you are interested in outside my standard set of boundaries that I hold for you? How do you want to create your female happy ending story?I ask that question for a very specific reason. (Usually not at your first visit.) I do not have a standard set of boundaries because "I" need them. They are for you. My boundaries are typically broader. This allows for those that wish to broaden their boundaries to request interests that stretch their limits. For example, typically I would never pull anyone's hair more than a very soft grasp and gentle outward pressure. But I have been asked to pull hair in a more primal fashion. You have your unique interests and generally I am more than willing to accommodate.
I ask if there is anything else you have questions about. Anything else you would like to discuss. Then I ask:
This is all about Consent. This is your power. You grant me permission to "give" to you. You control what I can and cannot give to you. In return I give you the ultimate in respect; I honor your consent.
If you want to proceed, we go to the massage table. I will go wash my hands while you disrobe (full or partial) and get on the massage table. Typically this is a naked female massage. However, you may choose to begin fully clothed. That is up to you.
For the 1/3 of your session, I work on you back, your shoulders, your scalp, neck, ears, legs and feet in soothing relaxing touch and strokes. For the next 1/3 of your session I work on your face, shoulders, arms and hands, feet, legs, thighs, hips, abdomen. For the last 1/3 of your session I would typically finish removing any remaining clothing, tease your chest, inside your thighs, deeper on your hips and pubic mound, then finally I would move to your breasts then vulva if that is what you have consented to have me work on.
I get very tuned in to where you are comfort wise and arousal wise. I don't get ahead of you if you are nervous. That is ineffective. I would rather spend the whole session getting you comfortable if that is what you need. Your pelvic nerve does not activate if you are nervous, afraid, uncertain or unable to relax for any reason. I will wait until your body is in the proper state for each step of your chosen or selected sex positivity session.
That is generally what the above video shows. The lady in the video does in fact become comfortable enough to savor the pleasure that she hoped to receive. I also have additional female massage videos. They are explicit and some have labeled them female massage porn, but I like to think they are informational, educational and instructional.
I hope I can show you how relaxed you can be at Femspahhh!